#Keep Your Long

climegaads / July 13, 2017

#Keep Your Long-Distance Relationship Exciting
No one wants to be in a long distance relationship, but sometimes responsibilities and opportunities get in the way.
#I learned this is not only a test of your relationship but also of yourself. Are you independent enough to be on your own and secure enough in yourself to trust your partner? If so, this time apart can be wonderful.
#Trust or Bust
Without trust, none of these ideas will help save your relationship. Almost always, a lack of trust stems from lack of communication.
Whether it be not getting in touch when you are out, not mentioning who you hang out with or not letting your partner know when you are upset, you are creating a ticking time bomb.
I would be lying if I said I was an all-trusting girlfriend. The reason my jealously has not ruined my relationship is I have learned when and how to express my feelings.
When something bothers you, confront it as soon as possible. The longer you keep it to yourself the more your jealousy will boil inside you until it bursts.
You also may be irrationally upset when you first find out about something. Take a second to talk it over with a friend to get in the right mind set and plan how to calmly approach the situation. If you ask your partner about something instead of accusing them it can usually be talked out and resolved.
If your significant other is wary of your relationship, a nice way to assure him or her is mentioning them to your peers.
Whether it be friends, coworkers or family, nothing feels better than when you meet up and your peers tell them “nice to finally meet you, we’ve heard so many good things about you.”
I am not saying talk everyone’s ear off about your companion, but mentioning them can help solidify his or her presence in your life.
I would always make sure to mention my boyfriend casually in conversation when meeting a new guy just so they knew what my intentions were from the start.
If you are in a long distance relationship simply remind your partner that you care, because ultimately the little day to day reminders are what make long distance relationships exciting